Today’s blog is in honour of my fiance.
We had a relationship together years ago eventually going
our separate ways. Seven years later we
came into contact again as friends.
After some time, both free agents and to be honest, both unwittingly, we
fell in love again.
It would have been easy to have dismissed the idea of
being with me. Let’s face it, I have
terminal cancer, why even consider it an option? There are so many wonderful girls out there
with far less problems than me or would you say, with greater certainties than
me.
People have commended me for my bravery. However, I’d like to acknowledge the bravery
of a man for opening himself up, for making himself vulnerable, for supporting
another person and being man enough to deal with my powerful emotions as well
as their own. Emotions they have chosen to open themselves up to. Of course, he says it was never a choice.
A man who has previously supported and witnessed his own
father lose a battle to cancer. Imagine
the emotional triggers for him that lie within my situation.
I am so grateful to have the support of a very brave
man. A man who is strong yet vulnerable
at the same time.
I feel very lucky to have been given a chance to love and
be loved.
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| Us eight years ago in our first relationship |
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| Relationship number two |
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